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THE LANGUAGE OF CONNECTION
First Section
INTRODUCTION TO THE LANGUAGE OF CONNECTION (2:39)
SURVEY TO SEE WHERE YOU ARE AT
LEVELS OF ALIVENESS
TYPES OF PEOPLE
STAGES OF LEVELS OF ALIVENESS
PERFORMANCE SCALES
YOUR PROGRESS
:::: Category: TRUST
Lesson #1: WHEN YOU DON'T COMPLAIN IN FRONT OF PEOPLE, YOU CONNECT.
Lesson #2: WHEN YOU DON'T COMPLAIN TO PEOPLE ABOUT OTHERS OR ABOUT A SITUATION, YOU CONNECT.
Lesson #3: WHEN PEOPLE COMPLAIN, SHARE THEIR PAIN WITH YOU AND YOU DON'T "BUY THEIR STORY", YOU CONNECT.
Lesson #4: WHEN YOU ARE NOT TIMID NOR SHY, YOU CONNECT.
Lesson #5: WHEN YOU DON'T ATTACH TO THE END RESULT OR TO ANYTHING, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #6: WHEN YOU DON'T COMPLAIN ABOUT HOW MUCH SOMETHING IS OR HOW MUCH YOU HAD TO SPEND ON SOMETHING, YOU CONNECT.
Lesson #7: WHEN YOU TALK TO PEOPLE WITH TRUST AND PICTURING THEM AS CHAMPIONS, YOU CONNECT.
Lesson #8: WHEN YOU STOP FEARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU, YOU CONNECT.
Lesson #9: WHEN YOU ARE IN YOUR FUNCTION, YOU CONNECT.
:::: Category: PLEASURE
Lesson #10: WHEN YOU ENJOY EVERY DAY TASKS, YOU CONNECT.
Lesson #11: WHEN YOUR LEVEL OF PLAYFULNESS IS HIGH, YOU CONNECT.
Lesson #12: WHEN YOU DROP YOUR AGENDA THAT SOMEONE SHOULD BE PLAYFUL, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #13: WHEN YOU GET WHAT YOU NEED SO YOU ARE REPLENISHED, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #14: WHEN YOU DON'T GO INTO SEDUCTION, WHEN YOU DO WHAT YOU PROMISED, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #15: WHEN YOU FOLLOW YOUR SCHEDULE AND DO WHAT YOU PROMISED NO MATTER WHAT IS GOING ON, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #16: WHEN YOU ENJOY JUST TO ENJOY AND YOU THROW SHAME OUT THE WINDOW, YOU CONNECT
Category: YOUR SENSE OF BELONGING / EXCITEMENT
Lesson #17: WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE EXPECTATIONS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #18: WHEN YOU DON'T LET SOMEONE OR SOMETHING ACTIVATE YOUR AGGRESSION WHEN THEY ATTACK, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #19: WHEN YOU LET PEOPLE BE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #20: WHEN YOU MAKE PEOPLE SHINE AND YOU ARE TRULY NOT ENVIOUS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #21: WHEN YOU CONNECT WITH THE WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND OF YOUR FRIENDS OR POSSIBLE CLIENTS FIRST, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #22: WHEN YOU DON'T LET SOMETHING PRESSURE YOU, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #23: WHEN YOU DON'T EXPLAIN YOURSELF, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #24: WHEN YOU "YIELD", YOU CONNECT
Lesson #25: WHEN YOU STOP WANTING TO BE RIGHT (EVEN IF YOU ARE RIGHT) AND YOU STOP YOURSELF BEFORE ARGUING, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #26: WHEN YOU DON'T GO INTO "CONVINCING" MODE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #27: WHEN YOU DON'T GO INTO FAMILIARITY, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #28: WHEN YOU DON'T TRY TO CONTROL AND DOMINATE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #29: WHEN YOU DON'T FORCE SOMEONE TO DO SOMETHING THEY CLEARLY DON'T WANT TO DO, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #30: WHEN YOU ARE GRATEFUL FOR EVERYTHING EVEN WHEN THINGS DON'T GO YOUR WAY, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #31: WHEN YOU DON'T LET ANYONE HAVE A "HOLD OF YOU", YOU CONNECT
Lesson #32: WHEN YOU LET GO PEOPLE OR FRIENDS IN YOUR LIFE THAT ARE NOT SERVING YOU OR GIVING YOU ENERGY, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #33: WHEN YOU DON'T TAKE THINGS PERSONAL, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #34: WHEN YOU ENJOY A CONNECTION YOU MADE BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE EVEN IF THEY DON'T INCLUDE YOU IN THEIR PLANS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #35: WHEN YOU MAKE SURE THE ATTENTION IS "OFF" OF YOU AND "ON" OTHERS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #36: WHEN YOU LITERALLY "LET" PEOPLE HELP YOU, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #37: WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL GUILTY, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #38: WHEN YOU SAY EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY OR SMALL (WHEN YOU ASK IN A "LIGHT" WAY), YOU CONNECT
Lesson #39: WHEN YOU DON'T ISOLATE, YOU CONNECT
:::: CATEGORY: HAPPINESS & HEART OPENNESS
Lesson #40: WHEN YOU DON'T SHARE YOUR SELF-PITY OR YOUR PAIN, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #41: WHEN YOU STOP "LONGING" FOR SOMETHING OR SOMEONE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #42: WHEN YOU DON'T GO INTO "PUNISHING" REVENGE MODE OR JEALOUS MODE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #43: WHEN YOU SEE EVERYONE AS A LITTLE SENSITIVE 3 YEAR OLD, A LITTLE BABY OR PUPPY THAT COULD DO NO WRONG NO MATTER WHAT, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #44: WHEN YOU DON'T BELIEVE PEOPLE'S STORIES AND/OR PEOPLE'S ATTACKS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #45: WHEN YOU AT LEAST TRY AND DON'T CARE TO DO IT ALL WRONG, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #46: WHEN YOU DON'T CARE (WHEN YOU STOP BEING IN "CARING" MODE), YOU CONNECT
Lesson #47: WHEN YOU BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE CAN LOVE AS MUCH AS YOU LOVE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #48: WHEN YOU ACKNOWLEDGE WARMLY THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU (BUSINESS LIFE AND FAMILY), YOU CONNECT
Lesson #49: WHEN YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN NO MATTER WHAT, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #50: WHEN YOU SEE WHAT PEOPLE NEED AND YOU GIVE IT TO THEM, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #51: WHEN YOU DON'T BELIEVE YOUR FEELINGS (SADNESS, RESENTMENT, DISAPPOINTMENT, DEPRESSION, MADNESS, ANXIETY, PARANOIA, RAGE), YOU CONNECT
Lesson #52: WHEN YOU DON'T GO INTO ROMANCE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #53: WHEN YOU DON'T FALL INTO THE ROMANCE THAT SONGS AND MOVIES WANT YOU TO BUY, YOU CONNECT
:::: CATEGORY: ENTHUSIASM
Lesson #54: WHEN YOU DON'T SHUT DOWN YOUR OWN ENTHUSIASM OR THE ENTHUSIASM OF THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #55: WHEN YOU SEE WHAT "LIGHTS PEOPLE UP" AND YOU MENTION IT, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #56: WHEN YOU DON'T GIVE ADVICE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #57: WHEN YOU ARE AWARE OF WHAT IS THE MESSAGE BEHIND YOUR WORDS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #58: WHEN YOUR TONE OF VOICE IS FIRM AND AT THE SAME TIME UNATTACHED TO THE END RESULT, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #59: WHEN YOU SPEAK OUT THAT THERE IS DISCONNECTION AND YOU DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #60: WHEN YOU SPEAK OUT JUST FACTS; JUST THE OBVIOUS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #61: WHEN YOU GIVE CLEAR SHORT INSTRUCTIONS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #62: WHEN YOU STOP YOURSELF FROM SAYING UNNECESSARY THINGS JUST TO FILL THE SILENCE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #63: WHEN YOU DON'T GET DISAPPOINTED, YOU CONNECT
:::: CATEGORY: CONFIDENCE
Lesson #64: WHEN YOU DON'T LET DOUBT IN, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #65: WHEN YOU GIVE PEOPLE THE TIME OF THEIR LIFE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #66: WHEN YOU ANSWER QUESTIONS WITH A QUESTION, YOU CONNECT
:::: CATEGORY: INSPIRATION
Lesson #67: WHEN YOU DON'T PROJECT YOUR VIEW OR YOUR FEELINGS ON TO ANYONE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #68: WHEN YOU LISTEN ALL THE WAY THROUGH WHEN SOMEONE SPEAKS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #69: WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE OPINIONS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #70: WHEN YOU MAKE DISTINCTIONS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #71: WHEN YOU DON'T LET WORRIES IN, YOU CONNECT
:::: CATEGORY: TRANQUILITY & ADVENTURE
Lesson #72: WHEN YOU FOLLOW YOUR CURIOSITY, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #73: WHEN YOU JUST OBSERVE FACTS AND DON'T ADD ASSUMPTIONS, STORIES OR INTERPRETATIONS TO THE FACTS, YOU CONNECT. WHEN YOU DON'T CRITICIZE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #74: WHEN YOU OBSERVE WHICH LEVEL OF ALIVENESS A PERSON IS TALKING TO YOU FROM AND YOU DON'T MAKE THAT PERSON WRONG OR YOU DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL, YOU JUST OBSERVE WHICH LEVEL OF ALIVENESS THEY ARE AT, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #75: WHEN YOU DON'T GOSSIP, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #76: WHEN YOU ARE NOT SELF-CONSCIOUS ABOUT YOUR BODY OR HOW YOU LOOK, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #77: WHEN YOU DON'T GO INTO "PROBLEM SOLVING MODE", YOU CONNECT
Lesson #78: WHEN YOU LET GO OF BEING TOO EXACT OR TOO PERFECT, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #79: WHEN YOU DON'T PLEASE ANYONE THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO PLEASE, YOU CONNECT. WHEN YOU STOP "ACTING NICE", YOU CONNECT
:::: CATEGORY: ECSTASY
Lesson #80: WHEN YOU ASK QUESTIONS (BEING INTERESTED INSTEAD OF INTERESTING), YOU CONNECT
Lesson #81: WHEN YOU DON'T FALL INTO PARANOIA, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #82: WHEN YOUR LEVEL OF BELIEF IS HIGH, YOU CONNECT. WHEN YOU MAKE THE DECISION THAT IT'S "THERE" FOR YOU, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #83: WHEN YOU DESIRE, LET GO AND TAKE ACTION, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #84: WHEN YOU MAKE DECISIONS AND YOU BACK UP YOUR INTENTIONS WITH THEM, YOU CONNECT
:::: CATEGORY: RAPTURE
Lesson #85: WHEN YOU STOP YOUR SELF-IMPORTANCE AND SEE EVERYONE AS EQUAL TO YOU, YOU CONNECT
:::: CATEGORY: BLISS
Lesson #86: WHEN YOU CONTEMPLATE A PERSON WHEN THEY ARE TALKING TO YOU, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #87: WHEN YOU CONTEMPLATE IN SILENCE EVEN FOR A COUPLE OF SECONDS INSTEAD OF GOING INTO RAGE, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #88: WHEN YOU CONTEMPLATE IN GENERAL ABOUT ALL THE THINGS GOING YOUR WAY, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #89: WHEN YOU CONTEMPLATE PEOPLE AND LOVE THEIR "SHOW", YOU CONNECT
Lesson #90: WHEN YOU PUT EVERYTHING THAT IS "IN THE BACK OF YOUR MIND" TO THE SIDE AND DROP IT, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #91: WHEN YOU DON'T "LONG" FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE YOU HAD IN THE PAST, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #92: WHEN YOU NOTICE YOU HAVE FEAR, YOU DON'T MAKE YOURSELF WRONG FOR HAVING IT AND YOU LET GO OF IT, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #93: WHEN YOU NOTICE YOU CAN'T "PLAY" AND YOU DON'T MAKE YOURSELF WRONG FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO PLAY, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #94: WHEN YOU NOTICE YOU HAVE ISOLATED YOURSELF AND YOU DON'T MAKE YOURSELF WRONG, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #95: WHEN YOU NOTICE YOU ARE SAD (OR IN SELF-PITY, OR IN "CARING MODE" OR "REVENGE MODE") AND YOU DON'T MAKE YOURSELF WRONG, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #96: WHEN YOU NOTICE THAT YOU SHUT DOWN THE ENTHUSIASM AND YOU DON'T MAKE YOURSELF WRONG FOR THIS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #97: WHEN YOU NOTICE THAT YOU SHUT DOWN YOUR OWN INSPIRATION AND YOU DON'T MAKE YOURSELF WRONG FOR THIS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #98: WHEN YOU NOTICE YOU GET HYSTERICAL OR ARE IN PARANOIA AND YOU DON'T MAKE YOURSELF WRONG, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #99: WHEN YOU NOTICE YOU GO INTO SELF-IMPORTANCE, HOSTILITY OR HATE AND YOU DON'T MAKE YOURSELF WRONG FOR THIS, YOU CONNECT
Lesson #100: WHEN YOU NOTICE THAT YOU ACT FROM "THE PAST" OR YOU GO INTO RAGE AND YOU DON'T MAKE YOURSELF WRONG FOR THIS, YOU CONNECT
YOUR LIFE RULES --- TO KEEP YOUR MOMENTUM & POWER
Your Life Rules for your Life Game
:::: TEAM BUILDING EXERCISES TO KEEP THE TEAM SPIRIT UP
How to keep the team spirit up from beginning to end of a project
:::: QUICK MOTIVATION
QUICK UPLIFTING PHRASES
:::: CLOSING STATEMENTS & RECOMMENDED MOVIES
CLOSING STATEMENTS
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PICTURES WITH QUOTES FROM THE LANGUAGE OF CONNECTION
Pictures that inspire
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Lesson #74: WHEN YOU OBSERVE WHICH LEVEL OF ALIVENESS A PERSON IS TALKING TO YOU FROM AND YOU DON'T MAKE THAT PERSON WRONG OR YOU DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL, YOU JUST OBSERVE WHICH LEVEL OF ALIVENESS THEY ARE AT, YOU CONNECT
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